Michael Shannon
Letters to my Sons.
I SEEMED TO HAVE LOVED YOU IN NUMBERLESS FORMS, NUMBERLESS TIMES…
LIFE AFTER LIFE, IN AGE AFTER AGE…FOREVER.
Rabindranath Tagore*
The tombstone speaks. It might be surprising to you that they do indeed speak to historians. Mankind’s desire to be remembered after death is an element of our collective history. Remembered by many when fresh, time slowly erodes those who knew the people lying under them until only the curious, someone who never knew the living person seeks out those that tell a story.


Cemetery’s are everywhere. During Vietnam I was stationed at Naval Hospital annex Pearl Harbor. Another sailor and I toured around the islands and visited whatever site we might find interesting. There are great things to see no matter where you live. Hawaii has its share. Long the home of the US military’s mid- Pacific’s home, there are more bases than you can shake a stick at.
I’ve seen the huge veterans cemetery nestled in the crater of the “Punchbowl” in Honolulu. The National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific, located in Honolulu’s Punchbowl Crater, is the final resting place for over 53,000 veterans of WWII, Korea, and Vietnam. The “Punchbowl’s,” 116-acre site serves as a major Honolulu landmark.
The cemetery holds nearly 13,000 World War II dead from the Pacific theater. It is the resting place of numerous Medal of Honor recipients, including Pvt. Mikio Hasemoto of the all-nisei Japanese American 100th all Nisei infantry regiment.
It holds the remains of Medal of Honor recipient Senator Daniel Inouye, “Spark” Matsunaga also rests there. Both men veterans of the brutal Italian campaign up the boot of Italy. Both of them were later elected to the United States Senate from Hawaii.
The first time I went there it went to see the grave of Ernie Pyle who I knew from reading some of my mothers books which he wrote when he was a war correspondent in the Big One WWII. He is buried between two unknown soldiers, reflecting his desire to be with the ordinary soldiers he covered and who loved him.
There is also a memorial in Okinawa on the site where he was killed by a sniper that states, “At this spot the 77th Infantry Division lost a buddy, Ernie Pyle, 18 April 1945”. He is a person well worth reading if you want to know about your great uncles and fathers who called themselves “Dogfaces” and who, for five years ground down and finally defeated the worlds three great fascist powers. He literally carried his little typewriter into the lines and wrote about the sons of American families. He shared foxholes, slept in the mud and rain. He was bombed, strafed and lived as the riflemen did. He was revered by soldiers because he both spoke and wrote about their lives which were rarely featured in the big press of the time. He saw the tragedy of war right up front with the troops who lived and waged it. He knew the “Doggie’ who wore a stained and dirty khaki shirt, broken down boots and carried an M-1 rifle. They saved our country for $1.67 a day.

So thats how I became a “Haunt.” Someone who haunts graveyards. You can walk through one and try and imagine what the lives of the people who lie there were like. Those who came before you all have a story to tell. Some important, some not so much but a story nevertheless. It’s all those stories connected that comprise history.
Perhaps it’s in the genes. My father and uncle jack literally grew up on an old cemetery on our ranch. The dairy my grandparents owned had its milking barn and silos built right over the site of some of the earliest burials in our little community of Arroyo Grande, California. Before the dedication of the Odd Fellows cemetery which lay just west of the townsite itself many rural ranch folks were buried on their own property and this county has dozens of very old burial grounds dating to the earliest inhabitants including the original native population.
When I was in grammar school we could slip through the three wire Bob wire fence hustle up the hill and on the other side, visit the small burial site of our early pioneer Francis Ziba Branch, his wife Manuela and his three young daughters, Maria Josefa, 15 Manuela, 13 and Ysabel, 5. They all died within days of each other in 1862. The Smallpox that killed them brought by a visitor availing himself of the legendary hospitality of the Californio Rancheros.
That old story is marked by tombstones inside a dilapidated wire fence under an ancient and gnarled Oak that was there before any Branch and guards their memory today..
Just outside the fence, the Hemmi’s, father Peter and son, 15 year old PJ, who shot a neighbor to death in a land dispute. They were hanged from the Pacific Coast RR bridge in town for the suspected murder. It was a scene right out of an old western movie, the rope with its 13 loops slipped over the heads of the accused before they were and pushed off the edge. After the pair, man and boy were sufficiently strangled the upright local leaders went home and slept the sleep of the righteous. The next morning children coming down Crown Hill headed for school found the still, limp bodies swaying gently in the morning breeze. Coming together like a flock of birds, chirping and chattering at a sight the knew they might never see again.
The tombstone speaks. It might be surprising to you that they do indeed speak to historians. Mankind’s desire to be remembered after death is an element of our collective history. Remembered by many when fresh, time slowly erodes those who knew the people lying under them until only the curious, someone who never knew the living person seeks out those that tell a story.
Cemetery’s are everywhere. During Vietnam I was stationed at Naval Hospital annex Pearl Harbor. Another sailor and I toured around the islands and visited whatever site we might find interesting. There are great things to see no matter where you live. Hawaii has its share. Long the home of the US military’s mid- Pacific’s home, there are more bases than you can shake a stick at.
I’ve seen the huge veterans cemetery nestled in the crater of the “Punchbowl” in Honolulu. The National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific, located in Honolulu’s Punchbowl Crater, is the final resting place for over 53,000 veterans of WWII, Korea, and Vietnam. The “Punchbowl’s,” 116-acre site serves as a major Honolulu landmark.
The cemetery holds nearly 13,000 World War II dead from the Pacific theater. It is the resting place of numerous Medal of Honor recipients, including Pvt. Mikio Hasemoto of the all-nisei Japanese American 100th all Nisei infantry regiment.
It holds the remains of Medal of Honor recipient Senator Daniel Inouye, “Spark” Matsunaga also rests there. Both men veterans of the brutal Italian campaign up the boot of Italy. Both of them were later elected to the United States Senate from Hawaii.
The first time I went there it went to see the grave of Ernie Pyle who I knew from reading some of my mothers books which he wrote when he was a war correspondent in the Big One, WWII. He is buried between two unknown soldiers, reflecting his desire to be with the ordinary soldiers he covered and who loved him.
So thats how I became a “Haunt.” Someone who haunts graveyards. You can walk through one and try and imagine what the lives of the people who lie there were like. Those who came before you all have a story to tell. Some important, some not so much but a story nevertheless. It’s all those stories connected that comprise history.
Perhaps it’s in the genes. My father and uncle jack literally grew up on an old cemetery on our ranch. The dairy my grandparents owned had its milking barn and silos built right over the site of some of the earliest burials in our little community of Arroyo Grande, California. Before the dedication of the Odd Fellows cemetery which lay just west of the townsite itself many rural ranch folks were buried on their own property and this county has dozens of very old burial grounds dating to the earliest inhabitants including the original native population.
When I was in grammar school we could slip through the three wire Bob wire fence hustle up the hill and on the other side, visit the small burial site of our early pioneer Francis Ziba Branch, his wife Manuela and his three young daughters, Maria Josefa, 15 Manuela, 13 and Ysabel, 5. They all died within days of each other in 1862. The Smallpox that killed them brought by a visitor availing himself of the legendary hospitality of the Californio Rancheros.
That old story is marked by tombstones inside a dilapidated wire fence under an ancient and gnarled Oak that was there before any Branch and guards their memory today..
Just outside the fence, the Hemmi’s, father Peter and son,15 year old PJ, who shot a neighbor to death in a land dispute. They were hanged from the Pacific Coast Railway bridge in town for the suspected murder. It was a scene right out of an old western movie, the rope with its 13 loops slipped over the heads of the accused before they were and pushed off the edge. After the pair, man and boy were sufficiently strangled the upright local leaders went home and slept the sleep of the righteous.
The next morning children coming down Crown Hill headed for school found the still, limp bodies swaying gently in the morning breeze. The little group of kids stood chirping and chattering like a flock of little birds as they took in a scene never to be forgotten.
The Hemmi’s were refused burial in the cemetery on our property by our most upright of citizens, for Arroyo Grande had at the time almost as many churches as saloons. By the good graces of Mrs. Manuela Branch they were buried next to her family. A series of tragedies told in old stone and wooden markers.
In later days, a grandson of Manuela Josefa Branch talked of the lynching, he being a witness, saying that the two went quietly, no blindfolds, no Priest with a last prayer, simply shoved over the edge of the Railway bridge. Fred Jones was just fifteen himself and accompanied his father and the other men. Years later he said he had always wished he had stayed home. Mrs. Hemmi was sitting in the shed that passed for the make shift jail house. The look on her face revealed that she knew exactly what was about to happen. The old man had never forgotten the look of horror on her face at that moment

Fred Jones 1871-1967. Grandson to Manuela Josefa Branch. Witness to a hanging.
So, it has always been a human practice to celebrate or memorialize lives, to leave a mark that one has existed literally from mankind’s beginnings. Roughly 110 billion people have lived on earth. Most of their stories are unknown to us. The idea that an individual would have a personal marker is only a couple of centuries old. Gravestones, or headstones, evolved from ancient megalithic markers used around 3,000 B.C. to identify communal burial chambers, with individualized markers becoming widespread in the 17th century. While early markers focused on marking family sites, modern inscribed headstones grew popular with churchyard burials and, eventually, in cemeteries for the general population by the 19th century.
In my travels, what had started as just a curiosity has become more than that. A visit to graves has become a prominent feature of anywhere we go. Just the simple inscriptions can trigger a desire to find who and what that person was or did.
Somewhere behind the inscription is a life and a history, a story to be told. A man who immigrates from Ireland to the Hughes ranch on the wild Sixes river, never married and lived out his life and was buried in the family graveyard up on the ridge overlooking the wild Pacific Ocean.

Link to the Immigrants Tale: https://atthetable2015.com/2021/03/13/an-immigrants-tale/
If you ever travel to western Europe walk the old residential streets of Amsterdam or Vienna’s streets where the houses, chock-a-block as they are will have small brass markers set into the cobbled sidewalks, “She stumbling Stones,” or Stolpersteine, the brainchild of German artist Gunter Demnig. For years he’s been traveling across Europe placing plaques in front of houses where Jews lived before they were deported by the Nazis. The small memorial consists of a 4 x 4 inch stone with a brass plaque stating the Jewish victim’s name, date of birth and death and the name of the camp in which he or she was murdered. The aim is to make the magnitude and triviality of the Holocaust tangible and to commemorate the victims at the place they were taken from their lives. Demnig also likes the idea of bringing relatives ‘back together’ by placing their stones together after they were transported and murdered in the different camps.

Stolperstein, Wien, Austria.
In case you are wondering, there is a stone in front of Anne Frank’s home at Westermarkt 20, 1016 GV Amsterdam, Netherlands.

There are parts of Vienna where literally every house has a plaque by the door with the names of the boys who went to war, were killed in WWI and WWII. They bring home the monumental sacrifice made by those boys to the megalomanic, suicidal vanities of old men. No history book can do this. It is simply stunning.

Cpl Edgar Green 2nd Australian Infantry, Gallipoli, WW1 North Gate cemetery, Baghdad, Iraq.
My wife’s great uncle Edgar Green’s body lies in the North Gate Cemetery in Baghdad, Iraq. “A little piece of England” as the British were wont to say when they were a worldwide empire. No one in our family has ever stood before it and prayed for his 24 year old soul. He was just 20 when he left Australia and traveled half way around the world to defend his country against the Turks and Germans. A stomach wound at the battle of Lone Pine on the Gallipoli peninsula and the 1918 Influenza epidemic ended him. Just an individual tragedy whose by product was the war to end all wars.”
As we grow closer to home, in Bridgeport, California there is a tiny grave that has the inscription,”The first white baby born in Bridgeport.” There is a subtle message there. I’ve seen the same inscription in the old Yosemite cemetery and another one up in Bodie. It’s a not so subtle statement that more than hints at America’s built in racism.
A couple years ago we traveled in Nevada and drove up to Virginia City. My family had stayed overnight there in 1955 when it was just a few inches from being a ghost town. We stayed in a room at the old Silver Queen hotel. I still remember the plaques on the doors that listed the Silver Kings, John William Mackay, James Graham Fair, James Clair Flood, and William S. O’Brien. The hotel was also the home of Samuel Clemons.
It is not the same today. It’s packed with tourists and its main type of business seems to be modeled on the cheap traveling carnival. For myself. a trip to the graveyard was the pièce de résistance. There are ten, thats right, ten cemeteries in the thirty acre plot. It’s built on a series of small hills and the paths that wander around, up and down between the different graves. There are Irish grave sites, two of them. One likely for the poor mine workers, the Hoi-Pallois, the other for the Hoity-Toity They’re all still Irish except for the cost of the stones. There is a section for Mormons another for Cornishmen and still another for Jews and Catholics. They do not abut.

Juliette “Julia” Bulette. 1832-1867. Note the Captain’s fire helmet.
There is a part near the top and outside the fence for the sad Soiled Doves. The exception is Julia Bulette, a madam who famously nursed dying miners during Virginia cities many epidemics. She was also made an honorary fireman by the city’s fire companies. She had many friends, some in high places, some in low. Bulette had entire fire companies as friends, and interestingly, some of Virginia City’s upper crust women. Bulette was an accomplished seamstress, and many of her frocks found their way to places like Piper’s Opera House and the International Hotel. You can still see a few in the city’s museum.
Stories today insist that Bulette was murdered for her jewels and money, the problem being, she had little of each. A Frenchman with little command of the English language, John Millian, 38 years old, was arrested when it was discovered he had some of Bulette’s possessions, including a dress pattern she had ordered. Millian was judged to be guilty by an impromptu court and quickly hanged for her murder.
Bulette’s remains were buried in a silk lined mahogany casket, at the cost of $149. Every penny was raised by the people who cared for her. Her funeral procession was said to be the largest funeral in the city’s history. The Virginia and Truckee Railroad named a passenger car after her which still exists at the Nevada state RR museum in Carson city.
There is a headstone and a inside a small fenced area but her actual grave has been lost. You see, the Ladies of the city refused to let her rest with the people who loved her.
People who know the story still make sure there are flowers on the grave 159 years after her death.**
So, it has always been a human practice to celebrate or memorialize lives, to leave a mark that one has existed literally from mankind’s beginnings. Roughly 110 billion people have lived on earth. Most of their stories are unknown to us. The idea that an individual would have a personal marker is only a couple of centuries old. Gravestones, or headstones, evolved from ancient megalithic markers used around 3,000 B.C. to identify communal burial chambers, with individualized markers becoming widespread in the 17th century. While early markers focused on marking family sites, modern inscribed headstones grew popular with churchyard burials and, eventually, in cemeteries for the general population by the 19th century.
In my travels, what had started as just a curiosity has become more than that. A visit to graves has become a prominent feature of anywhere we go. Just the simple inscriptions can trigger a desire to find who and what that person was or what they did.
Somewhere behind the inscription is a life and a history, a story to be told.
In my travels, what had started as just a curiosity has become more than that. A visit to graves has become a prominent feature of anywhere we go. Just the simple inscriptions can trigger a desire to find who and what that person was or what they did.
You don’t have to travel far either. The Odd Fellows cemetery here at home tells a story with every stone and in some cases graves that have no stone.
There are sixteen markers for my family alone. We also have graves in San Luis Obispo, Santa Maria and both cemeteries in Guadalupe.


Mehitabel and John Corbit
One of my favorites are a pair of graves just 50 feet from my parents. John Corbit or Corbett, different spellings from a time when things like spelling and pronunciation were a little more flexible. Next to him is his wife Mehitabel. Now this isn’t some grand story of war or politics though he was a successful businessman, ran for county sheriff and was a mainstay of the horse racing community, which in those days was a major enterprise in the Cow Counties, livestock being the chief economic driver. He owned extensive lands in what is now called Corbett Canyon and was considered not only a very early pioneer, they came here about 1860 when most of the land was still owned by the original Rancheros, but also a fine upstanding citizen. He was a friend of Francis Ziba Branch, Michael Price, David Mallagh and Captain William Dana. They propered in an area of California that was still in a semi-wild state. John Corbit who was from Cavan Ireland by way of upstate New York farmed and ranched in the eponymous canyon populated by many, many Irish families as you can see on a tour of the old graveyard.
The whipped cream on the top of the Corbits story is the inscription at the base of her tombstone. In small script written at the bottom, it says “A charitable and faithful woman” How about that.

It tells you in no uncertain terms who she was and what she meant to her husband. They are both buried in section A just feet from my family in section B along the old Halcyon road.
Drop by sometime and see them. I’m sure they would enjoy the company.
NOTES:
*Rabindranath Thakur FRAS, also known by his pseudonym Bhanusimha was a Bengali polymath of the Bengal Renaissance period. In 1913, Tagore became the first Asian to win a Nobel Prize in any category, and also the first lyricist and non-European to win the Nobel Prize in Literature. B 1861-D 1941
**Julia’s grave has been lost in history. Those who actually knew where it was are long dead. There was a false grave put up years later which is not her real burial spot. It is thought that the original location is based on a mention of the pioneer cemetery known then as Flowery Hill from an old book printed the 1860s just a few years after her death.
The Corbit Photos are from a cherished family album. Bound in faded red velvet, it contains their photos and the printed announcement of her death. The album belonged to Patrick and Sarah Moore who were their contemporaries and were my grandmothers aunt and uncle.
Michael Shannon lives and writes in Arroyo Grande, California.





































